Wake up, young people! Wake up!

I considered writing this with some level of academic aptitude as if I was writing for publication in some peer-reviewed journal. However, I found it unnecessary and felt that I really needed to focus on the message, not the verbiage. For example, the sentences could have read, “I am often flabbergasted by the vernaculars of adolescents in the presence of significant and generalized others, particularly elders. Even more deplorable, indistinguishable deliberations are taking place within these subgroups.”

Rather than some intense scholastic rigidity, I thought the message could be best presented by saying, “I am amazed when overhearing the discussions that take place among some young people. What is even more amazing is the idea that ‘children’ are using certain language and covering topics that are quite explicit.” Now that the foundation has been laid and manner for which this is written is understood, let’s get to it.

I want this to be taken as advice from someone who is not much older than a “young person”. However, through experience I have grown and learned that some of the decisions I made before adulthood have helped to shape who I am even in early adulthood. Trust me, I have made my share of bad decisions, but am continuously learning from them.

My purpose here is to speak to young people. Maybe I should be a bit more precise. By “young people”, I’m referring specifically to those who are not yet adults but may be charged with some level of personal and/or family responsibility such as homework, household chores, or even being big brother or sister. I’m speaking specifically to middle and high schoolers.

Young people cursing, males verbally degrading females and vice versa, as well as talks of sex are just a few of the conversations that I have overheard—with total disregard of adult presence. The assumption is that these are the main topics when there are gatherings among friends. Whatever happened to discussions of homework, television shows, or the like? Young people are having mature conversations well before their time. Quite frankly, some of the discussions I’ve heard are not even appropriate for adults.

Contrary to the subcultural belief, it’s okay to be known for your intellect rather than being the noisiest and most unruly of the group. Focus attentions on more productive things such as community service, allowing your light to shine in a positive way. Show respect for adults, as well as your peers by setting exemplary examples. Tell people who approach you with discussions that are not appropriate, “I’m not interested—my interests are rooted in becoming a better person and getting the best that life has to offer. You’re blocking my path.”

This is a wakeup call—hence the title—for young people to recognize and be accountable for what you say and do. I’m not completely convinced that there is an understanding of how present acts can help shape your future. The very folk you curse at, with, and around or even degrade may well be those needed for recommendations for employment. They may even be those doing the hiring. Yes, that includes your so-called friends. What they know about you now will assist in making decisions about you then. Think about that while I say again, Wake up young people! Wake up! © 2008 Keydron Guinn